Once the decision to divorce has been made, the next step is to choose how to handle the divorce process. In the Netherlands, there are three common routes to reaching a divorce judgment: hiring a lawyer, working with a mediator, or combining mediation with legal support in the background. Each option has its own advantages … Continue reading Choosing your path to divorce in the Netherlands: lawyer, mediator, or both?
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Divorcing in The Netherlands? Advice from the tax department
In The Hague, 1,713 people divorced in 2024. This makes The Hague one of the three municipalities with the highest number of divorces last year, according to new figures from Statistics Netherlands (CBS). A divorce also has consequences for your tax affairs. Therefore, the Tax and Customs Administration is offering tips to help you manage your taxes … Continue reading Divorcing in The Netherlands? Advice from the tax department
Am I divorced yet? Understanding the divorce process in the Netherlands
Making the decision to divorce is rarely easy. For most couples, it follows months – or even years – of emotional reflection and effort. But once that decision is made, the legal process begins – and that’s often where the real work starts. In the Netherlands, divorce involves more than just signing a few forms. … Continue reading Am I divorced yet? Understanding the divorce process in the Netherlands
Living together after a divorce
For many, divorce signifies a clear and definitive end to a shared life. The idea of continuing to live together might seem absurd or even impossible. Yet, some couples do explore this unconventional arrangement, either by choice or necessity. So, is living together post-divorce a crazy idea or a practical solution? Why Consider Living Together? … Continue reading Living together after a divorce
A divorce far from family
If you're in international living in the Netherlands going through divorce, chances are you need to do this far from family. That adds additional stress and challenges at an already difficult time. Navigating a divorce far from your support network can leave you feeling isolated and overwhelmed. In addition to the emotional toll, there are … Continue reading A divorce far from family
Is your divorce amicable or angry?
Divorce is often seen as a painful, contentious process filled with emotions like anger, betrayal, and sadness. The notion of an amicable divorce—one where both parties part on relatively good terms, free of prolonged conflict—might seem like an idealised version of reality. However, is it truly possible to divorce without significant anger, or is it … Continue reading Is your divorce amicable or angry?
Was the divorce your decision?
They say it takes two to tango...but in many cases, it may only take one to decide on a divorce. Divorce is rarely a simple or straightforward experience. It’s a life-changing event, one that affects not only the individuals involved but often their families, friends, and communities as well. For women living abroad—particularly international women … Continue reading Was the divorce your decision?
Psychological Violence to become a punishable offence in the Netherlands
State Secretary for Justice and Security Ingrid Coenradie is introducing a legislative bill to make psychological violence a separate punishable offence. She made this commitment today during the parliamentary committee debate on sexual offences and women’s safety and security concerns in the House of Representatives. Psychological violence, particularly coercive control and intimate terrorism, is one … Continue reading Psychological Violence to become a punishable offence in the Netherlands
Government benefits in the Netherlands for coparents
This is a general article giving you a starting point. Please note that things can change, and also be different for your specific situation. Kinderbijslag The Kinderbijslag is an amount paid every quarter (so 4 times a year) to every family in the Netherlands with a child under 18. This payment is not based on … Continue reading Government benefits in the Netherlands for coparents
Dating after divorce
Can you even contemplate this yet? A few things to think about. Divorce is a major life transition, and navigating the path forward can feel daunting, especially when it comes to re-entering the dating scene. However, dating after divorce also offers an opportunity for growth, self-discovery, and the chance to build meaningful connections. Here are … Continue reading Dating after divorce
Dealing with a Divorce 