We are a small group of international women in the Netherlands who discovered we were all dealing with divorce at the same time.

This overwhelming experience requires a lot of support and information and we often couldn’t find exactly what we needed. We wanted to help each other, and anyone else out there by sharing our own experiences and what we have learned, as well as gathering information from others. So this blog was born in 2021.

As these are often such raw and sensitive topics, we have decided to do so anonymously while we process this very difficult time in our lives.

Complete transparency: some articles are written entirely by humans, while others have been written with the support of AI – but are always prompted, checked and edited by a real person who has personally been through being divorced in The Netherlands.

Many images are AI generated to compliment the article while retaining anonymity of author/s.

Would you like to connect with a “real person”? Barbara Jan offers divorce coaching. She is based in The Hague, The Netherlands and offers in person or online sessions. There are also online group sessions available.

If you’d like to contribute an (anonymous) article, please contact us.